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TRADE SCHOOLS

Solution: Learn a Trade, Build a Future

 ManchildLoser.org recommends that manchildren ready to level up explore local trade schools. Find out the cost, program length, and exam details. Many schools offer study guides—and some even guarantee you don’t pay unless you pass. It's a smart, practical path to independence. What are you waiting for? 


LEARN ABOUT DIFFERENT HIGH PAYING TRADES

IT'S TIME TO DEVELOP GOOD HABITS

CHECK OUT THE GOOD HABIT GUIDE BELOW

Mental Habits


1. Daily Self-Reflection

  • Ask yourself: What did I do well today? Where did I fall short?
  • Write it down. Self-awareness is the root of maturity.

2. Delayed Gratification

  • Practice choosing long-term benefits over short-term pleasure.
  • Examples: Choose saving over spending, reading over scrolling, walking away over arguing.

3. Own Your Mistakes Without Excuses

  • “I messed up” is more mature than “Yeah but…”
  • Start catching yourself every time you deflect blame.


 Physical Habits


4. Exercise (3–5x per week)

  • It’s not about abs. It’s about discipline, self-respect, and mental strength.
  • Lifting weights, running, martial arts, or even just walking—pick something and stick with it.

5. Clean Up After Yourself

  • Every day: make your bed, clean your space, do your dishes.
  • It builds responsibility and destroys the “mom will do it” mindset.


 Financial Habits


6. Track Every Dollar

  • Know exactly what you earn, spend, and save.
  • Apps like YNAB or even a spreadsheet work. Don't rely on vibes.

7. Pay Yourself First

  • Save something from every paycheck—even $20.
  • Develop the habit of prioritizing your future self.



 Time Habits


8. Use a Calendar

  • Plan your week on Sunday. Block time for work, rest, exercise, and goals.
  • Stop “winging it”—that’s child behavior. A man structures his time.

9. Be Early, Not Barely On Time

  • Show up five minutes early. It signals respect—for others and yourself.


Relational Habits


10. Follow Through on Your Word

  • If you say you’ll do something, do it.
  • Doesn’t matter if it’s a lunch plan or a promise—flakiness is immaturity.

11. Express Gratitude and Apologies

  • Say “thank you” and “I’m sorry” with sincerity.
  • Avoid sarcasm and passive-aggression. Be emotionally clear.


Growth Habits


12. Read 10 Pages a Day

  • Start with books that build character, finance, or discipline.
  • A manchild watches YouTube endlessly. A man educates himself.

13. Limit Porn, Scrolling, and Gaming

  • Set hard limits or take detoxes.
  • These are dopamine crutches that keep you emotionally stunted



Bonus Habit: Ask for Feedback from Men You Respect

  • Find someone ahead of you in life.
  • Ask: “What do you see that I could improve?”
  • Then listen without getting defensive.


Start With Just Three

If you’re overwhelmed, that’s normal. Pick one from each category:

  • Mental: Reflect daily.
  • Physical: Exercise 3x/week.
  • Relational: Follow through on your word.

THE ULTIMATE GOAL

 With support from ManchildLoser.org, the unrecovered manchild transforms—starting with self-care and discipline, moving toward responsibility. Using our resources, he gains skills, lands solid work, and ultimately becomes independent—buying his own home and leaving the manchild life behind for good. 

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THINGS YOU SHOULD UNDERSTAND

READ BELOW AND UNDERSTAND WHO YOU NEED TO BE

1. Take Radical Responsibility

Stop blaming others (parents, exes, bosses, the world). A man owns his choices and consequences. If you mess up, own it. Apologize when you’re wrong, not to get forgiven, but because it’s the right thing.

2. Master Your Impulses

A manchild acts on emotion or desire (anger, laziness, lust, ego). A man feels those things but chooses how to act. Discipline in how you eat, sleep, work, and love is foundational.

3. Stop Seeking Permission

Don’t wait for others to tell you it’s okay to start something meaningful. Want to build a better body, relationship, or career? Get moving. Action builds confidence.

4. Get Your Finances in Order

No one expects you to be rich, but financial chaos signals immaturity. Track your spending. Pay off debt. Save a little. Budget. Be able to take care of yourself and, eventually, others.

5. Do Hard, Uncomfortable Things Regularly

Men grow in the struggle. Go to therapy. Fix the broken sink. Have the awkward conversation. Wake up early. Lift weights. Say no when it’s hard. Every time you lean into discomfort, you evolve.

6. Build a Code—and Live By It

Know your values: honesty, loyalty, integrity, courage, patience. Write them down. Measure your decisions against them. Don’t betray them to fit in or impress someone.

7. Learn to Serve

A manchild expects others to take care of him. A man looks around and asks, “What can I give?” Whether it’s your family, community, partner, or friends—be useful. Show up. Follow through.

8. Clean Up Your Relationships

Stop ghosting. Stop clinging. Stop playing games. Communicate clearly. Set boundaries. Respect others’ time and emotions. And don’t tolerate disrespect from others either.

9. Seek Mentorship

Find older men or mature peers who walk the path. Listen more than you talk. Read biographies. Watch how solid men live, not just what they say.

10. Build Something That Lasts

A legacy isn’t about fame—it’s about building something that makes you proud. A healthy body. A good relationship. A business. A reputation for being reliable.

You don’t have to do it all at once. But start. Even if it’s messy.

Which part feels most relevant—or most difficult—for you right now? We can go deeper.

HIGH PAID TRADES WITH LOWER SCHOOL REQUIRMENTS

CHECK OUT THE HIGH PAYING TRADES BELOW THAT DON'T REQUIRE MORE THAN ASSOCIATES DEGREE!

 

1. Aircraft Mechanic

Learning the exciting trade of repairing and maintaining airplanes or helicopters can be accomplished through an aviation school's short, FAA-approved aircraft maintenance training.

  • Median pay: $75,020
  • Top pay: $114,750 or more

2. Electrician

Training at an electrician trade school and a short apprenticeship are usually enough to enter this trade, letting you wire buildings for electrical power and communications.

  • Median pay: $61,590
  • Top pay: $104,180 or more

3. Plumber/Pipefitter/Steamfitter

With a short amount of formal plumbing trade school or apprenticeship training, you can specialize in installing and repairing pipes and related equipment.

  • Median pay: $61,550
  • Top pay: $103,140 or more

4. HVAC Technician

These tradespeople install, maintain, and repair the systems that heat and cool our homes, businesses, and other buildings. A short program at an HVAC trade school can prepare you to become an HVAC technician in 8 to 24 months.

  • Median pay: $57,300
  • Top pay: $84,250 or more

5. Construction Equipment Operator

This skilled trade involves controlling large construction machinery to build roads or major structures. Businesses are often willing to train workers on the job, but formal heavy equipment training could give you an edge in securing a good job.

  • Median pay: $55,270
  • Top pay: $94,800 or more

6. Welder

Manufacturing, construction, and fabrication usually require welding. Most welders work in the manufacturing sector but are also employed in various other industries. The typical way to enter the welding trade is by completing formal welding training, getting certified, and continuing to learn while on the job. By combining classroom education and on-the-job training, employers and unions sometimes offer the opportunity to earn money while learning through a welding apprenticeship.

  • Median pay: $48,940
  • Top pay: $72,970 or more

7. Diesel Mechanic

In this automotive trade, the focus is on inspecting, repairing, or overhauling large vehicles with diesel engines such as trucks, buses, and rolling machinery used in mining or construction. Diesel mechanic training is offered at vocational and trade schools, and usually nine to 24 months to complete.

  • Median pay: $58,970
  • Top pay: $82,430 or more

8. Automotive Technician

Formal automotive training can prepare you to become a respected technician in an exciting and challenging field. You must complete an apprenticeship or a post-secondary program to become a mechanic. Many vocational schools offer auto mechanic programs, and some offer apprenticeships and externships.

  • Median pay: $47,770
  • Top pay: $77,630 or more

To understand which skilled trades careers are gaining momentum, check out our comprehensive list of the top skilled trades for 2025.


Healthcare Careers

1. Dental Hygienist

Dental hygienists' primary duties include cleaning teeth, inspecting mouths for signs of disease, and educating patients about proper oral care. This is a popular option for quick degrees that pay well. Dental hygienist training can be completed in as little as two years.

  • Median pay: $87,530
  • Top pay: $118,400 or more

2. Diagnostic Medical Sonographer

These healthcare technicians use special ultrasound technology to capture images that help doctors correctly diagnose and treat their patients. Most ultrasound techs have an associate degree in diagnostic medical sonography.

  • Median pay: $84,470
  • Top pay: $116,300 or more

3. Registered Nurse

With an associate degree in nursing, you could be providing essential patient care in hospitals, nursing facilities, and other healthcare settings. In the future, you could expand your career potential and enhance your job satisfaction through an RN to BSN bridge program.

  • Median pay: $86,070
  • Top pay: $132,680 or more

4. Respiratory Therapist

Respiratory therapists help patients breathe effectively, whether they are helping with rehabilitation in a private clinic or placing someone on a ventilator to save their life. The pandemic highlighted the critical role of respiratory therapists in hospitals, especially in treating patients with severe respiratory illnesses, including lingering lung damage from COVID-19. The demand for respiratory therapists is high and expected to stay high for some time. Respiratory therapist school can be completed in two years or less.

  • Median pay: $77,960
  • Top pay: $104,480 or more

5. Radiologic (X-Ray) Technologist

An X-ray technologist operates radiologic medical imaging equipment to produce images and media for diagnostic purposes. These professionals assist patients before and after imaging and then process and review the results to ensure they are clear enough for diagnosis and evaluation by a doctor. Completing a diploma or certificate program in basic X-Ray or radiologic technology can help you prepare for any required licensing exams.

  • Median pay: $73,410
  • Top pay: $102,380 or more

6. Cardiovascular Technologist/Technician

These specialists perform tests, take ultrasound images, or provide assistance during surgery for heart-related conditions. Cardiovascular technologist training can typically be completed in one to two years.

  • Median pay: $66,170
  • Top pay: $105,140 or more

7. Surgical Technologist

Preparing operating rooms, organizing surgical equipment, and assisting surgeons during operations are a few of the main roles of this kind of healthcare technician. A certificate or diploma in surgical technology can be completed in 9 to 15 months.

  • Median pay: $60,610
  • Top pay: $83,150 or more

8. Licensed Practical or Vocational Nurse

You do not need a degree to get into this level of nursing, which lets you work alongside doctors and other health professionals after a quick (typically one year) LPN training program. This training teaches basic patient care skills and prepares you for the National Council Licensure Examination (NCLEX-PN).

  • Median pay: $59,730
  • Top pay: $77,870 or more

Technology Careers

1. Software Developer

Although many developers have bachelor's degrees, other successful people in this field begin their careers with under two years of formal training in software development. Practical experience and hands-on skills can be incredibly valuable, often more so than traditional degrees, in building a successful career.

  • Median pay: $132,270
  • Top pay: $208,620 or more

2. Network Systems Administrator

This technology-based vocation involves managing an organization's data communications systems. Networking training ranges from short certificate and diploma programs to degrees and specific vendor certifications.

  • Median pay: $95,360
  • Top pay: $148,710 or more

3. Web Developer

Building attractive and functional websites requires plenty of technical skill but not necessarily much schooling, especially if you already enjoy teaching yourself new tricks. This could be one of the quickest careers you can get into in tech. While not required, a formal web development or design education can give you an edge.

  • Median pay: $84,960
  • Top pay: $157,280 or more

4. Electrical or Electronics Engineering Technician

An electrical or electronics engineering technician helps engineers develop and test equipment and devices related to computers, health monitoring, communications, or navigation. Electronics training can take anywhere from four months to two years. Certificate or diploma programs can take as little as four months, and associate degree programs are typically 18 to 24 months long.

  • Median pay: $72,800
  • Top pay: $105,320 or more

5. Mechanical Engineering Technician

With an associate degree in mechanical engineering, you can begin assisting mechanical engineers in developing, testing, and manufacturing industrial machines, engines, and tools with moving parts.

  • Median pay: $64,020
  • Top pay: $96,740 or more

More Great Careers with Short Training


1. Commercial Pilot (Non-Airline)

You don't need a college degree to fly charters or to get paid for jobs like aerial photography or firefighting missions. But you do need certification from the Federal Aviation Administration. You can prepare for certification at an aviation school offering short pilot training.

  • Median pay: $113,080
  • Top pay: $239,200 or more

2. Police Officer

Requirements vary from agency to agency. In some cases, being in good physical shape and having some criminal justice education can make you a viable candidate for police academy training. Short career training in law enforcement can be a requirement or an asset.

  • Median pay: $74,910
  • Top pay: $117,100 or more

3. Paralegal or Legal Assistant

These well-paid professionals are trained to support lawyers by handling responsibilities like legal research, administrative tasks, or document drafting. An associate degree in legal assisting or paralegal studies can be completed in two years.

  • Median pay: $60,970
  • Top pay: $98,830 or more

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